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Getting your way without Authority
By Margaret Steen
IN today's team-based work world, success depends not only on the quality
of your work but on your ability to get others to work with you. This is not
always easy, especially when you need to enlist the cooperation of your boss,
a peer, or even a potential customer.
"Everybody has to influence beyond their formal authority," said
Steve Levin, an executive coach who teaches a course for leaders called "Powerful
Conversations."
Experts offer five tips for persuading even when you don't have authority:
1. Know what's in it for you.
What is the larger purpose for asking your colleague to call a potential customer
for you, or your boss to offer his support for your project?
Make sure you can answer, "For the sake of what?" about each request,
Levin said. Is the goal to keep a key customer happy or to save the company
money?
2. Know why you're asking.
You don't need to spell out an exact exchange each time you ask someone for
help. But you do need to understand what the other person's goals are, and
frame your request in a way that shows how that person will benefit.
If you ask a colleague to call one of your accounts, your colleague could
say, "It's your customer -- why do I care?" And you need an answer,
such as, "Retaining this customer will enhance our reputation in the
marketplace, and that affects all of us," Levin said.
3. Tailor your request to your audience.
Some people are best persuaded with a lot of data; others respond better if
you tie what you want to a big-picture goal.
"Communicate with the person the way they want to be communicated with,"
said Glenn Parker, a team-building consultant in Princeton, N.J. and author
of "Team Players and Teamwork: New Strategies for Developing Successful
Collaboration."
4. Ask for a commitment.
Often, meetings with colleagues have "a lot of discussion and not a lot
of clarity" about who is to do what, Parker said. If you're asking for
help from people who don't work for you, you need to be especially careful
that everyone understands who has committed to what.
Casually asking, "Can you pay extra attention to this client?" may
get your colleague to say yes, but she may not be committed to doing anything
differently, Levin said. A more precise request, such as, "Will you call
this client before the end of the day?" is more likely to elicit a "meaningful
yes."
And don't worry that a specific request will make it easy for the person to
say no. "We actually want them to say no, if no is their answer,"
Levin said.
5. Be fearless.
Many people "give up before they try" to influence beyond their
authority, Levin said. But don't assume that others won't listen. Instead,
remember why you're asking: You want to help the company keep a customer,
or implement an innovative cost-saving measure.
If you're asking for selfish reasons, you probably won't be successful anyway.
But if you're asking "on behalf of something larger" than yourself,
Levin said, "that's exactly what every leader wants people to do. That's
called taking initiative."